Shannon, Our Cup

Every environment needs a cup. That person who holds it together, who gently mends the cracks, who acknowledges when it's getting low and refills it.

Our Shannon is our cup.

The inspiration behind success, nationally and internationally. The one who sees past the surface and acknowledges and celebrates the genuine internal self.

The dad of the group, the inappropriate Egg, and the one you can throw a single look at and he can read it like a book. Probably the only boss in history you can greet in the morning with a wide range of friendly gestures and unsavoury phrases.

I've worked in a range of different areas, with a range of different management styles and systems. But Shannon's is the most effective I've ever worked alongside. He's gentle and flexible, however boundaries are strong. He's relaxed, fun, and entertaining yet also dedicated, passionate and pushes you beyond capabilities. He encourages authenticity. Which is a fine balance in a school setting.

Personally, that was one of my biggest battles. Settling into a place where I felt seen and heard, yet also establishing boundaries for protection. Over time, this has eased. Acceptance allows for confidence.

Acceptance allows comfort. Letting your colleagues see the unapologetic version of yourself, is not a barrier. It's a firecracker. It builds trust, friendships and understanding.

When Shannon approached me to consider becoming a teacher, he had no idea what I was battling behind closed doors. A lost identity, a struggle with both personal and professional projections. He only knew what he saw in front of him. For me, that's is what swayed my decision making towards teaching. "Maybe, just maybe, I can show others that you can do things even when you don't think you're capable." That maybe it's not about what you're fighting alone, but more about the bubble of networks you have around you. That trusting someone, can have positive outcomes. That respecting their perspective and taking a leap can pay off. That I can do anything.

Shannon will fight for and in your best interests. For no other reason but because he cares. He believes the best in others and in the little wins. That is what defines success. He does nothing for glory, or accolades. But because it makes his heart happy. And making a difference is the core value behind Shannon's work.

He speaks about different leaders, and the benefits they offer. Shannon's leadership style is one of support, of mutual respect, of seeking guidance. The knowing looks, the comic strips and personalised memes, the gentle comments and discussions. They are not just deliberate, but they are individualised. His way of saying "I see you" without directing a pathway of response.

Even now, I find myself running to him with success stories, comments, "look at this". No matter what he is in the middle of, he will always stop and listen. Because for him, that is joy. The little things, that all count towards the big stuff.

Shannon has altered the trajectory for countless individuals. Me included. Through trust, mutual respect and strong friendship. The key requirements for successful leaders.